Hope for Life Ministry

Expectations Christian Biblical Counseling Center and Radio Broadcast

                                                                                                            where hope begins.......


Hear Steve's interview on the Point of View Radio broadcast on Anxiety, depression, fear, worry and Obsessive Compulsive

Check out our new web site where you can purchase teaching CD's and find out more   www.hopeforlifeministry.com

Do you struggle with Anxiety, fear, worry, depression or obsessive thoughts?  Click here for Steve's help!

               ___________  

                           

Go to Home Page

Our Mission

Our desire is to bring hope, joy and peace, through Christ, to a hurting and confused world.

Rom 15:13  "Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that you will abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."  NASB


 

Online Bibles

Net Bible

Bible Gateway

Blue Letter Bible


Read Steve's Story of the loss of his first wife to cancer and his remarriage


Web site pages

 

Steve Leavitt's comments in Bold

       

Lesson #2

How to date you mate 1:9-3:11

Song 1:9-3:11

Solomon to Shulammite

      I liken you, my darling, (Hebrew word "Raya"=best freind) to a mare

      harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh.

      The Pharaoh’s mare was the highest animal in the land. Very well taken care of.

      10Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings,

      your neck with strings of jewels.

      We should speak to our mates with encouraging tenderness.

      Daughters of Jerusalem to Shulammite

      11We will make you earrings of gold,

      studded with silver.

      Shulammite

      Shulammite takes the opportunity to build up her husband; as all spouses should.

      12While the king was at his table,

      my perfume spread its fragrance.

      13My lover is to me a sachet of myrrh

      resting between my breasts. (NASB say resting all night long)

      This is how dear he is to her.

      14My lover is to me a cluster of henna blossoms (little red tender flower)

      from the vineyards of En Gedi.

      She likens him to a tender flower even though he is the most powerful man in the land.

      Solomon to Shulammite

      15How beautiful you are, my darling!

      Oh, how beautiful!

      Your eyes are doves.

      Shulammite to Solomon

      16How handsome you are, my lover!

      Oh, how charming!

      And our bed is verdant.

      17The beams of our house are cedars;

      our rafters are firs.

      Cedars and firs are two very strong woods.

      2:1 I am a rose of Sharon,

      a lily of the valleys.

      She once saw herself as ugly and unworthy, but after he esteems her, she now feels beautiful. Your spouse will find esteem from someone, it should be from you.

      Solomon to Shulammite

      2Like a lily among thorns

      is my darling among the maidens.

      He elevates her about all others as a precious, fragile woman.

      Shulammite to Solomon

      3Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest

      is my lover among the young men.

      I delight to sit in his shade,

      and his fruit is sweet to my taste. (he is pleasurable to her)

      She delights to get under his umbrella of protection, safty, warmth and leadership.

      4He has taken me to the banquet hall,

      and his banner over me is love.

      His banner is the fact the he publicly honors, respects and cherishes her.

      5Strengthen me with raisins, (thought to be an aphrodesiac)

      refresh me with apples,

      for I am faint with love.

      6His left arm is under my head,

      and his right arm embraces me.(this is a sexual position)

      She desires him sexually as a result of his tender encouragement and leadership.

      The most sensitive organ to stimulate on a female is her heart and mind.

      Solomon to Daughters of Jerusalem

      7Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you

      by the gazelles and by the does of the field:

      Do not arouse or awaken love

      until it so desires.

      He is a Godly disciplined man and says no to sex until God pleases in a marriage.

      Shulammite to herself

      They are going to go on a date!

      8Listen! My lover!

      Look! Here he comes,

      leaping across the mountains,

      bounding over the hills.

      He is coming to get her.

      9My lover is like a gazelle or a young stag.(or a STUD!)

      Look! There he stands behind our wall,

      gazing through the windows,

      peering through the lattice.

      10My lover spoke and said to me,

      "Arise, my darling,

      my beautiful one, and come with me.

      11See! The winter is past;

      the rains are over and gone.

      12Flowers appear on the earth;

      the season of singing has come,

      the cooing of doves

      is heard in our land.

      13The fig tree forms its early fruit;

      the blossoming vines spread their fragrance.

      What time of years is this? Spring time

      Arise, come, my darling;

      my beautiful one, come with me."

      She sees their love as fresh and full of life. We can stay this way in marriage for all ways. The honeymoon does not have to be over.

      Solomon to Shulammite

      14My dove in the clefts of the rock,

      in the hiding places on the mountainside,

      show me your face,

      let me hear your voice;

      for your voice is sweet,

      and your face is lovely.

      He is coxing her out of her shell. This will help her feel comfortable with who she is.

      A Chorus

      15Catch for us the foxes,

      the little foxes

      that ruin the vineyards,

      our vineyards that are in bloom.

      Foxes would get in the vineyards and nibble the buds off of the grapes not allowing them to mature and be fruitful.

      He is saying that when sin or temptation (foxes) come your way, you need to stop them so they don’t destroy you.

      What foxes do you need to catch in you life?

      Shulammite to herself

      16My lover is mine and I am his;

      he browses among the lilies. (he is gentle)

      17Until the day breaks

      and the shadows flee,(until morning)

      turn, my lover,

      and be like a gazelle

      or like a young stag

      on the rugged hills.(her breast)(NASB "Mountain of Bether"=two separate hills)

      She desires him again

      3:1All night long on my bed

      I looked for the one my heart loves;

      I looked for him but did not find him.

      2I will get up now and go about the city,

      through its streets and squares;

      I will search for the one my heart loves.

      So I looked for him but did not find him.

      3The watchmen found me

      as they made their rounds in the city.

      "Have you seen the one my heart loves?"

      4Scarcely had I passed them

      when I found the one my heart loves.

      I held him and would not let him go

      till I had brought him to my mother's house,

      to the room of the one who conceived me.

      This is a daydream the she is possible having about Solomon.

      Solomon to Daughters of Jerusalem

      5Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you

      by the gazelles and by the does of the field:

      Do not arouse or awaken love

      until it so desires.

      Solomon is a Godly disciplined man who says no to sexual impurity.


 

Hit Counter

Send mail steve@hopeforlifeministry.com with questions or comments about this web site.
Copyright © 2008 Hope for Life Ministry
Last modified: 06/26/08